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© 2020 by Kheiston Tilford. Proudly created by Tilford Consulting and Services

Have you ever wondered how God could take your painful experiences and turn them into something beautiful? 


In “I’m Coming Out: Overcoming What Tried To Overtake Me”, Alandria explores the raw realities of navigating through life’s most devastating moments. From grieving the loss of children, enduring the shame of sexual abuse, and journeying through the highs and lows of self-identification-- Alandria lays her story bare for others to glean from.

With unbridled vulnerability, unapologetic candidness, and biblical insight, Alandria’s words will help you:

  • Detox your emotions to create space for healthy relationships.

  • Embrace the painful experiences of your life as catalysts to propel you into your God-given destiny.

  • Overcome the wounds from your personal life experiences to walk in the wholeness that God intends for you.

This book is a reminder that our experiences through the fire don’t have to leave us shattered or broken forever – but with God’s grace, we can experience wholeness and recovery in a tangible way. 

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“You a skinny, black, ugly, lil girl!”

 Those were the words that constantly rang in Alandria’s ears during her youth. The people who were supposed to love and protect her were the ones who taught her how to hate and devalue herself.

A lack of self-awareness and a negative perception sent her on a dangerous quest searching for something she wished she always had---love. Her journey to find love caused her to seek validation between the sheets, which led to teen pregnancy.

Dark days overshadowed the three-time teen mom as she found herself burying two children by the tender age of sixteen.

The death of her children caused her to spiral down a path of depression, suicidal thoughts, and reckless behavior. After a serious of toxic relationships, Alandria decided it was time to face the real problem---herself.

“I’m Coming Out: Redefined” is a story of the phoenix rising from the ashes caused by the fire of life. It’s also a testament to how powerful one becomes when they learn who they are and whose they are.


Alandria is such a blessing to others. She is committed and dedicated to each and every client. She's a great listener, warm, and compelling. God took her story to help others. Therefore, she can relate to different circumstances.--Jaleesa M

Alandria is such a blessing. She helped me in so many different ways. I also loved the conversation we had and the fact she prayed for my family and I, spoke volumes of the type of person she is.-- Latoya W

Alandria is such a blessing! She’s a great listener & woman of God. When we talked we shared some of the same stories & her advice was right on point! I’ve never met her personally but it’s like I’d known her for years how our conversations clicked. Powerful words! And I would definitely recommend everyone to follow her & everything she has going on! It’s amazing & helped me a whole lot.-- Kellie D